“FIRST IMPRESSIONS”
FOURTH SUNDAY OF
LENT -C-
March 30, 2025
Joshua 5: 9a,
10-12; Psalm 34;
2 Corinthians 5: 17-21; Luke 15: 1-3, 11-32
By: Jude Siciliano, OP
Dear Preachers:
If you prefer stories
with happy, resolved endings, today’s parable of the Prodigal Son might leave
you feeling unsettled. We know the story well—perhaps too well. It can feel like
old news, something we've heard so often that we assume there's nothing new to
discover. After all, the parable appears only in Luke, and most churchgoers
could recite it by heart. Even those outside the church are familiar with its
themes. Phrases like “prodigal son” and “prodigal daughter” have become part of
everyday language. We hear people say, “The prodigal has returned,” even if
they’ve never set foot in a church or read the Bible. Museums, both classical
and modern, frequently depict the father welcoming his wayward son home.
Clearly, this story has embedded itself deeply into our culture and imagination.
But doesn’t it also leave you with lingering questions? How does the story
really end? Does the younger son stay home after the celebration? Has his heart
truly changed, or has he returned only for the security of food and shelter?
Does he settle down and work alongside his diligent older brother, or does he
once again ask for money and disappear on another reckless adventure? In other
words, has he truly repented, and will his future actions reflect that change?
And what about the older brother—the responsible, hardworking son? Does his
father’s plea soften his heart, leading him to join the celebration? Will he
embrace his younger brother and welcome him home? Or will he turn away in
resentment, feeling unappreciated for his years of loyalty, continuing to serve
his father but harboring deep bitterness?
We don’t know the answers. We might assume we do, but haven’t we all struggled
to break free from old patterns, even after making amends and resolving to
change? Can we say with certainty that we have fully accepted God’s forgiveness
and allowed it to transform our hearts? The parable is intentionally open-ended.
The father has shown love to both sons, meeting each where they are. Now, the
choice is theirs—will they allow his love to change them? If their hearts have
been touched, we should expect to see that reflected in their actions.
One thing is clear: the father has done all he can. He has shown compassion,
humility, forgiveness, and acceptance. The real question is whether his love has
truly reached his sons’ hearts. Do they recognize him not just as a father in
name, but as a father in love? He has gone out to meet both of them—embracing
the younger son on the road, and pleading with the older son to open his heart.
If they let him in, they will be changed. The younger son, having received
undeserved forgiveness, should have no desire to leave again. And the older son,
having been reassured of his father’s love, should let go of resentment. The
father’s words to him are telling: “My son, you are here with me always;
everything I have is yours.” The father has given his whole self to both sons.
The question remains: will they receive and be transformed by this gift?
The parable also addresses the Pharisees and scribes, who criticize Jesus for
welcoming sinners: “This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.” Like the
older brother, they have been faithful to the law and religious traditions, and
they expect recognition for their diligence. But they are troubled by Jesus’
openness to those who have strayed—those who, like the younger son, are now
returning in search of forgiveness. The older brother remained with his father
but never truly knew him. Likewise, the Pharisees and scribes have upheld the
law but failed to recognize the heart of the God they claim to serve.
This parable reminds us that there is a bit of both brothers in each of us. Most
of us have tried to live faithfully, following the teachings of our faith. But
like the older son, we can sometimes miss the very God we are serving. The
message of the parable is clear: we must come to know God not only as a figure
of authority, but as a loving, forgiving parent—one who delights in our
faithfulness and welcomes us when we stray.
When we do return, what can we offer God to prove our sorrow and desire to
change? Nothing. We can only accept the forgiveness freely given to us, allowing
it to soften our hearts. And when others come seeking our forgiveness, we must
mirror the God who ran to meet us on the road. Like the younger son, we barely
have a chance to finish our rehearsed speech—before we are embraced, clothed in
honor, and welcomed home.
Once we have truly absorbed the reality of God’s forgiveness, we are ready to
hear Paul’s message. Today’s gospel—and indeed the entire gospel—is a story of
reconciliation. In 2 Corinthians, Paul reminds us that God has taken the
initiative to reconcile us to Himself through Christ. If both brothers in the
parable had accepted their father’s reconciliation, their lives would have been
transformed. The younger son would have embraced his father’s forgiveness by not
returning to his old ways. The older son would have let go of resentment and
been reconciled to both his brother and his father.
Paul tells us that through Christ, we have already been reconciled to God. We
have been welcomed into the household of God’s love, invited to celebrate and
rejoice. We don’t know how the two brothers in the parable ultimately
responded—but we do know what we are called to do. Through our baptism, we live
as reconciled people, and with this new identity, we are sent out as ambassadors
of Christ. The reconciliation we have received is not meant to stay with us; it
must flow through us into the world.
An ambassador speaks and acts on behalf of their nation. Likewise, we are
commissioned to represent Christ—to be signs of God’s reconciling love. Our
world is in desperate need of ambassadors of peace, people who bring others
together rather than divide. Paul reminds us that this is our mission: to live
in a way that reflects what God has done for us in Christ.
Many parishes will offer penance services this Lent, including the Sacrament of
Reconciliation. Today’s readings remind us of the power of this sacrament. In
Catholic tradition, the words of absolution are not merely a prayer to God on
the penitent’s behalf. Instead, the priest, speaking with the authority of the
Church, proclaims: “I absolve you from your sins.” It is a bold statement—one
that testifies to the reality of God’s mercy. As a Church, we are called to be
ambassadors of reconciliation, both in what we believe and in how we live.
The story of the Prodigal Son remains unfinished. The Pharisees and scribes
criticized Jesus for welcoming sinners, but at this Eucharist, Jesus continues
to do just that—reconciling us to God and feeding us with His very self. Now, we
are sent into the world to be living signs of that reconciliation. We have been
welcomed home. It is our turn to go out and do the same for others.
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