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Feast of the Holy Family -C- December 26, 2021

1 Samuel 1: 20-22, 24-28; Psalm 84;
Colossians 3: 12-21; Luke 2: 41-52

By: Jude Siciliano, OP

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Dear Preachers:

Today’s gospel has a familiar ring. We have heard stories of famous people who showed precocious signs of future greatness while they were still young. Jesus, while still only twelve, declares his primary allegiance. He is to be in God’s house, God’s work will be his life’s work.

Jesus belonged to an observant Jewish family and so his parents take their firstborn to the Temple in Jerusalem. They are teaching him his Jewish heritage. St. Luke is brief about something that must have seemed like an eternity for Mary and Joseph – for "three days" they search for their missing child. Read into that succinct narrative the anguish Jesus’ parents must have felt searching for their son. What parent has not had a hint of that feeling when turning around in a mall they notice their child has wandered? How much greater the anguish experienced by those parents whose child has run away, or made decisions they were much too young to make, with consequences that may last the rest of their lives?

Parenting has profound joys and more than its share of worry, fright and anguish. I can only imagine the relief Mary and Joseph felt when, at last, they found Jesus. Mary’s statement to him, about his parents having "great anxiety," gives us a clue what the parents were feeling. The original Greek for "anxiety" suggests severe mental distress, sadness and intense anguish. For example, in Luke, it is the same expression used by the rich man who, having ignored the beggar Lazarus at his gate, winds up in hell begging Abraham for a drop of water to cool his tongue. He says, ". . . For I am in agony in these flames" (Lk. 16: 24). In Greek, "agony" is the same word Luke uses when Mary tells Jesus, "Your father and I have been looking for you with great anxiety". Mary’s tone sounds like what one would expect from a parent who has just gone through "great anxiety" – she is correcting Jesus. But his response isn’t the humble request for forgiveness we might have expected. Instead, he seems to reproach them for their worry. Jesus, as Luke depicts him here, is a young man finding his calling for life. He will be about God’s business and his choice of vocation will take him outside the influence of family and village.

Jesus’s response doesn’t clarify the matter for Mary and Joseph; they "did not understand what he said to them." The call he has heard, "to be in my Father’s house", and to dedicate himself to God’s ways, is exactly right for him – and for us. But we can’t ignore the mystery. That call will require him to be faithful to it all the way to his death. Others in religious and political power will take such exception to the way he lived out his vocation that they will seek his death This is just the beginning. Jesus will always cause continued questions and anguish for his parents, most especially for Mary, when she stands and wonders at the foot of his cross.

Let’s look at the context of the passage, this may help in our interpretation. Luke begins his gospel with a two-part prologue (1:5-2:52). The first part (1:5-2:40) appears in the Lectionary readings during Advent, the Christmas celebrations and on the feast of the Immaculate Conception. This part of the prologue is about Jesus’ origins. The second part (2:41-2:52) is much shorter and relates to his destiny. He will return to God. Hence, today’s selection begins to show this destiny, when Jesus says his place is in his "Father’s house." Through this liturgical year Luke’s gospel will follow a similar division. The first part will be about the origins of the Christian community in Galilee (4:14-9:50). In the second we will travel with Jesus to Jerusalem and discover our destiny with him.

There is a painting of the Holy Family I once saw, I think it was done by George de la Tour. It shows Joseph in his carpentry shop where he is teaching carpentry to the young Jesus. They are working on two pieces of wood that form a cross beam. De la Tour seems to be suggesting the early appearance of the cross in the gospel. The artist depicts the same thing Luke is showing us. Earlier in the Gospel Luke tells us that the Spirit of God "over shadows" Mary enabling her to become the mother of the savior. This young, unlettered peasant girl discerns the voice of God and responds in the affirmative to God’s will, becoming a partner with God in the work of redemption. Her "yes" began the story of God’s taking flesh – but it also turned her world upside down. Her "yes" to God’s ways required personal sacrifice.

We begin to see today some of the consequences in Mary’s life as a result of her consent to God. She must undergo the suffering of a parent whose son’s ways cause her pain and questions. Besides the Spirit’s presence in her life, the cross is also showing signs of its presence. We know that through Luke’s gospel the cross "overshadows" Jesus’ life – but we begin to see that it overshadows the family’s life as well. It has already begun to show itself as Jesus chooses a way of life that will bring suffering before it brings new life. Luke tells us that the parents "did not understand what he said to them." They, like Jesus’ disciples – and we as well – will have to walk by the light of faith that enables them to trust God, even when an answer to problems and pain is not immediately forthcoming.

Growing up I heard too many sermons that waxed eloquently on "the Holy Family." Preachers imagined an idyllic family which made me feel my loving family fell short of the ideal painted by the preachers. Painted images of the Holy Family in church and home only helped reinforce the unreality and distance between them and the families I knew. Jesus, Mary and Joseph, in their immaculate, but simple home, seemed so peaceful, clean and starched. I used to think Jesus had it easy, he had no brothers or sisters to argue with over the biggest piece of birthday cake. Mary and Joseph looked like they never disagreed, worried about finances, or had fears for the safety of their child growing up in an all-too-cruel world. I think we need to bring our human experience to today’s gospel and not sanitize it to fit our preconceptions or pious presumptions about the kind of life the Holy Family lived. Having an unreal idealized view of Jesus’ family only further separates us from his life and the lives of other saints.

The closing line tells us that when they returned to Nazareth, Jesus was obedient to his parents and that he "advanced in wisdom and age and favor before God and humans." This growth didn’t happen in his sleep. Jesus is part of a human family, devout Jews, who passed on their faith and their family customs to their son. As his parents, they taught and nourished Jesus into manhood. God’s taking flesh among us means Jesus grew and matured the way we do -- under the influence of his parents, extended family, friends and neighbors. Jesus was not raised in the Temple, in a rarefied atmosphere, far from the influence of his family. Instead, he was very much immersed among people who cherished, nourished and stood by him, even though they didn’t fully understand him.

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Into this world, this demented inn, in which there is absolutely no room for him at all, Christ has come uninvited. But because he cannot be at home in it, because he is out of place in it, his place is with those others for whom there is no room. His place is with those who do not belong, who are rejected by power because they are regarded as weak, those who are discredited, who are denied the status of person, who are tortured, bombed and exterminated. With those for whom there is no room Christ is present in the world.

Thomas Merton



Barbara Molinari Quinby, MPS, Director,

Office of Human Life, Dignity, and Justice Ministries

Holy Name of Jesus Cathedral, Raleigh, NC


Feast of the Holy Family -C- December 26, 2021

1 Samuel 1: 20-22, 24-28; Psalm 84; Colossians 3: 12-21; Luke 2: 41-52

By:   Jude Siciliano, OP


Mini reflections on the Sunday scripture readings designed for persons on the run. “Faith Book” is also brief enough to be posted in the Sunday parish bulletins people take home.

From today’s Gospel reading:

He went down with them and came to Nazareth,
and was obedient to them;
and his mother kept all these things in her heart.


We will accompany Mary as she periodically appears in the gospel of Luke. With her we will look and listen at the unfolding events and join her as we keep “all these things” in our heart.

So, we ask ourselves: 

  • Do I have a regular practice of reflecting on the significance of the day’s events?

  • Do I accompany those reflections with regular meditation on God’s Word in the scriptures?


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"Love all my friends and all the friendships that I have made. They are like the sky. It is all part of life, like a big full plate of food for the soul. I hope I left everyone a plate of food full of happy memories, happiness and no sadness."

—Last words of Quintin Jones before he was executed on May 19, 2001 at Huntsville Prison, Texas. Media witnesses were not admitted to his execution.

This is a particularly vulnerable time for state and federal prisoners. I invite you to write a postcard to one or more of the inmates listed below to let them know we have not forgotten them. If the inmate responds you might consider becoming pen pals.

Please write to:

  • Johnny Parker #0311936 (On death row since 3/24/1997)
  • Leroy Mann #0255136 (7/15/1997)
  • Christopher Roseboro #0352024 (8/29/1997)

----Central Prison, P.O. 247, Phoenix, MD 21131

Please note: Central Prison is in Raleigh, NC., but for security purposes, mail to inmates is processed through a clearing house at the above address in Maryland.

For more information on the Catholic position on the death penalty go to the Catholic Mobilizing Network:

On this page you can sign "The National Catholic Pledge to End the Death Penalty." Also, check the interfaith page for People of Faith Against the Death Penalty:


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